
Within the class the other day there was the suggestion that people who play games like “second life” can often loose contact with the boundaries of reality and confuse the two worlds. At first I thought that this was complete BS. How can you confuse the two realities? You are either at the computer or you’re not. There is either physical contact with human or there are words on a screen. But as I thought about it I found that within my experience there has been a blurring of realities.
Although logic will always dictate that there was no actual contact with the person as they are many miles away, there is still some sort of emotional connection. When I talk to people online in real time through msn, skype or facebook chat there is an element of reciprocation on behalf of the other person. They can answer all of the questions in real time and it becomes irrelevant where the person physically is situated in the world. It is the conversation that I remember not the medium. This being said in the ‘real world’ it is the information that is revealed to me by the other person that I remember. I remember that I spoke to someone and I don’t remember if it down the shops or on the phone.
To me I think that the virtual and reality blur when there is only superficial contact. I don’t mean this in a nasty way but simply when there is a general conversation that doesn’t involve any issues or conflict. I believe that this is more my sense of, what I believe to be, proper communication in such an event then a reflection upon the media itself. I prefer the face-to-face contact when resolving a conflict then words on a screen.
Tell me what you think.